stephen covey
Success Tweet 32
Jun 1st
My latest career success coach book, Success Tweets: 140 Bits of Common Sense Career Success Advice, All in 140 Characters or Less is now available on Amazon.com and in bookstores. I am in the process of blogging about each of the tweets in it. You can get a free copy of Success Tweets at www.SuccessTweets.com. If you like it, I’d appreciate a positive review on Amazon.com.
Today’s career success coach post is on Tweet 32…
Stuff happens as you go about creating a successful life and career. Choose to respond positively to the negative stuff that happens.
It’s simple, really. Success is all up to you, and me, and anyone else who wants it. We all have to take personal responsibility for our own success. I am the only one who can make me a career success. You are the only one who can make you a career success.
Stuff happens: good stuff, bad stuff, frustrating stuff, unexpected stuff. Successful people respond to the stuff that happens in a positive way. Humans are the only animals with free will. That means we – you and me – get to decide how we react to every situation that comes up. That’s why taking personal responsibility for yourself and choosing to respond positively to the negative stuff that happens to you is so important and is some great career advice.
I tell my career success coach clients that personal responsibility means recognizing that you are responsible for your life and the choices you make. It means that you realize that while other people and events have an impact on your life, these people and events don’t shape your life. When you accept personal responsibility for your life, you own up to the fact that how you react to people and events is what’s important. And you can choose how to react to every person you meet and everything that happens to you.
The concept of personal responsibility is found in most writings on success. Stephen Covey’s first habit in 7 Habits of Highly Effective People is, “Be proactive.” I have a little book called Daily Reflections for Highly Effective People also by Stephen Covey. It is one of the most read books that I have. I like it because it provides a little snippet of career advice from 7 Habits of Highly Effective People everyday.
The daily reflection for September 24 goes directly to the career advice in this tweet, and it gets to the heart of personal responsibility and life and career success.
“It’s not really what happens to us, but our response to what happens to us that hurts us. Of course, thing can hurt physically or economically and can cause sorrow. But our character, our basic identity, does not have to be hurt at all. In fact, our most difficult experiences become the crucibles that forge our character and develop the internal powers, the freedom to handle difficult circumstances in the future and to inspire others to do so as well.”
Dr. Covey provides some great career advice here. We can’t always choose what happens to us, but we can choose how we react to both the positive and negative experiences we have as we go through life. Successful people choose to make lemonade out of lemons. Unsuccessful people choose to complain about the bitter, tart taste of the lemons they are handed.
I know the “lemons into lemonade” line is a cliché. However, clichés become clichés because they have an underlying truth. The important point is that human beings are blessed with free will. As such, we can choose what we do and how we react to the world around us. We can choose a positive, productive path; or we can choose a path of self pity and inaction – and hurt only ourselves in the end.
The 7 Habits advice for September 25 carries on in the same vein…
“Proactive people can carry their own weather with them. Whether it rains or shines makes no difference to them. They are value driven; and if their value is to produce good quality work, it isn’t a function of whether the weather is conducive to it or not.”
I love the concept of carrying your own weather with you. It is great career success coach advice.Choosing to react positively to the negative people and events in your life is the best way to carry your weather with you– and to take personal responsibility for your life and career success.
The common sense career success coach point here is clear. Successful people know that they can choose how they respond to everyone they meet and everything that happens to them. They know that “the devil made me do it” is never an accurate statement. They also know that no one can “make” them mad. In short, they follow the advice in Tweet 32 in Success Tweets. “Stuff happens as you go about creating a successful life and career. Choose to respond positively to the negative stuff that happens.” If you want to create the career success you deserve, remember Stephen Covey’s advice. Carry your weather with you. In this way, whether it rains or shines on the outside, it will be sunny on the inside. Choose to react positively to the negative people you meet, and the negative things that happen to you. When you do, you’ll find that you’ll have less negative things happening and fewer negative people entering your life.
That’s my take on the career advice in Tweet 32 in Success Tweets. What’s your? Please take a few minutes to leave a comment sharing your thoughts with us. As always, thanks for reading.
Bud
Success Tweet 13
May 5th
I am doing a series of posts further explaining the ideas in my new book Success Tweets: 140 Bits of Common Sense Career Success Advice; All in 140 Characters or Less.
Today’s post is on Tweet 13…
Your vivid mental image is a blueprint. It is a plan for success, but you still have to do the work to make it a reality.
I probably should amend the tweet to say, “Your vivid mental image is a goal. You need to create a plan (a blue print) to make this goal a reality – and then do the work.” Regardless, the career success coach message here is simple. You have to do the work to achieve your goals. It’s up to you. You’re the one who has to do the work.
My current vivid image of my career success is one in which I work primarily from home as an internet marketer.
I have a plan to make this vivid mental image come true. To implement this plan I need to manage my time well. Most of the really important work I do requires large chunks of unbroken time. I create large chunks of time for working on big projects and important activities – like writing books, blogging and creating products.
The same is true for you. You have to figure out what’s important to you and then create chunks of time to do what’s important. Besides my career success goals, my health is important to me; so I allocate 30 to 60 minutes a day for exercise. I’m going for a bike ride as soon as I finish writing this post. I have friend who reads inspirational literature for at least 15 minutes each night before he goes to sleep. He says that this helps him begin each day inspired and ready to move forward toward his goals.
The important point here is to plan your days in advance. Schedule specific fixed time periods for particularly important activities and tasks. Make appointments with yourself and then discipline yourself to keep them. Set aside thirty, sixty and ninety minute time segments in which you will work on and complete important tasks that move you toward your vivid mental image of success.
Stephen Covey tells us that successful people find the time to focus on the important, but not urgent tasks. If you’re not careful, your day will get taken up with urgent (sometimes important, and sometimes unimportant) tasks. If this happens, you will be keeping your head above water, but not gaining any ground. You won’t be moving toward your vivid mental image of your success.
Writing and posting this blog is a good example of one of the chunks of time I carve out for myself. My blog is an important, but not urgent activity for me. If you’re a regular reader, you know that I post every day, Monday through Friday. This structure helps me when it comes to composing my posts. Right now, I’ve added even more structure. I am doing a series of blog posts that further explain the advice in Success Tweets. This is the 13th post in the series. I will keep going until I have done a blog post on all 141 tweets – there is a bonus tweet in the book. If you want a free copy of the eBook version, go to www.SuccessTweets.com.
I usually write my posts two or three days ahead. At a minimum, I write blog posts the night before I post them. It takes me 30 to 45 minutes to write a blog post. My discipline in writing a day before I post means that I don’t feel under the gun to write something every morning. I think it results in better quality posts, and moves me toward my vivid mental image of success.
I post my blogs first thing every day. If I have a very early meeting, or will be traveling early, I post the night before. It takes me about 30 minutes to post this blog, as I post it in several locations. www.BudBilanich.com is the main page for this blog. However, I also post to several other sites.
All of this takes time and discipline. The time I spend writing and posting every day is a very important part of maintaining my internet presence. My internet presence is the cornerstone of my marketing efforts. I carve out large chunks of time to do the important, but not urgent task of building and maintaining my internet presence. I have disciplined myself to set aside 60 to 90 minutes per day writing and posting my blogs.
I also carve out time to comment on five blog posts, written by other bloggers, every day. This also helps with my internet presence and takes about an hour a day. I have identified a number of blogs I read regularly and on which I comment. It takes about seven to ten minutes to compose a thoughtful comment for each post.
In the past, I have had good intentions of doing this, but the urgent tasks that come up every day have made this a hit and miss proposition. Recently, I decided that I will take one hour at the end of every day to read and comment on other blogs. I will do this before I end my business for the day.
The common sense career success coach point here is simple. From a time perspective, you get the biggest bang for the buck from the activities that are important to your success, but are not urgent. Unfortunately, important but not urgent tasks often don’t get done because of all of the urgent tasks that come up during any given day. Tweet 13 in Success Tweets says “Your vivid mental image is a blueprint. It is a plan for success, but you still have to do the work to make it a reality.” One way to get started doing the work is to schedule time to work on the important but not urgent tasks that will result in achieving your vivid mental image of your career success. My best career success coach advice is to keep your commitment to yourself and your career success by planning you work and working your plan.
That’s my take on Tweet 13 in Success Tweets. What’s yours? Please take a few minutes to leave a comment sharing your thoughts with us. As always, thanks for reading.
Bud
